
Six years ago a 13 year old boy named Steven Urry hung himself in his bedroom closet. He committed suicide because he was being bullied and tormented at school. It's a terrible thing to see young teenagers like Steven, or Amanda Todd, a 15 year old girl commit suicide because they think that's the best way to escape. Bullying needs to be put to an end because of kids like Amanda or Steven. Steven loved skateboarding, baseball, music and he just loved to have fun like every other teenager, but how can a kid like him really be happy if everyday he had to wake up knowing that people were going to torture him once again at school. Steven's mother, Pam, found him in his closet, when she was looking for him because it was dinner time. What a horrible way to find your child. I feel so bad for his parents because I know they loved him, I wouldn't want my child to be so unhappy at such a young age, to the point where they have to just give up on life. Steven was artistic and didn't fit into his school, he stood out. To me I believe he stood out in a great way but to kids in his school he was a loser or a freak or whatever it was they called him! In the beginning of 7th grade was when the bullying got out of control, and he just couldn't take it anymore. It was too much for him. Earlier in school that day, the day he committed suicide, his tormentors set him on fire with a lighter and an aerosol
can of body spray. They recorded their attack on a cell phone and posted
it on the Internet.
Steven's parents found out abut Steven being bullied a month before his suicide. They did their best to help Steven. They filed police reports and talked to school officials, they were even going to switch schools for Steven before he committed suicide. But Steven's dad, Mike said, "We just found out too late, or maybe we didn't act fast enough, I don't
know. The teachers and staff had no plan, no procedure in place to
identify and stop the abuse."
"Tragically, many people knew what was going on, including many of
Steven's fellow students. One of the bystanders wrote about her guilt
and shame on her blog:
We all knew what he went through. We knew who beat him up.
We knew who locked him in a cupboard. We knew who had held his head
under water in a sink. So why hadn't we told anyone? We were stupid. And
we expected somebody else to do something about it. I wish I could
apologize to Steven. No, I never bullied him up front, but if you're not
part of the solution, you're part of the problem. "
Kids had a chance to stand up and help Steven, be there for him, and yet they just stood back. Maybe they were too afraid to speak up or maybe they just didn't care, but to think that maybe if those kids did help Steven he could still be here, alive today? No one will ever know. But my condolences go out to his family.
To read more check out this
Huffington Post article.